Then-Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump speaks at an event billed...

Then-Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump speaks at an event billed as "fighting antisemitism in America" in Washington, in September 2024. Credit: EPA-EFE/Shutterstock/Jim Lo Scalzo

This guest essay reflects the views of Rabbi Anchelle Perl, the director of Chabad of Mineola.

Sometimes people don't reject a message because the message is wrong. They reject it because they don't like the messenger.

Last week, President Donald Trump signed an official White House proclamation designating May as Jewish American Heritage Month — and within it, he did something no sitting American president has ever done. He called on the nation to observe a Sabbath.

The initiative, dubbed Shabbat 250, invites Americans of every background to pause from sundown Friday, May 15, through nightfall on Saturday — a single weekend of rest, reflection and gratitude, timed to the 250th anniversary of American independence.

The proclamation's language was, by any honest measure, beautiful. It honored "the countless contributions of Jewish Americans throughout our Nation's 250 glorious years of independence." It celebrated the values of "faith, family, and freedom." It recognized "the sacred Jewish tradition of setting aside time for rest, reflection, and gratitude to the Almighty." And it invoked President George Washington's 1790 letter to the Hebrew Congregation in Newport, Rhode Island — the founding promise that America "gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance."

And before the words had even finished echoing, the cynics were already at the keyboard: Anything from him, I don't want to hear.

Friends — and I say this as someone who has spent more than four decades in the pulpit, listening carefully to the public mood — that is not principled. That is lazy.

Imagine, for a moment, if the exact same words had come from a different politician. A celebrity. A voice you follow on Instagram. Many of the same critics might have applauded the message as profound and healing. That is the danger of our modern reflex: We no longer ask "Is this true?" We ask "Who said it?" — and once we decide we dislike the speaker, we stop listening altogether.

Every great wisdom tradition teaches the opposite. Truth is not less true because it came from someone you voted against. Wisdom is not less wise because it came from outside your circle.

One of the great tragedies of our times is that cynicism has begun to masquerade as intelligence. Constant suspicion poisons the soul. When every idea is filtered through tribal politics, we lose the ability to unite around anything uplifting.

No one is obligated to agree with any politician. Disagree on policy. Argue about taxes, immigration and foreign affairs until dinner is cold. That is the American way. I also want to make clear that I do not judge anyone — rabbi, pastor, neighbor, friend — who chooses not to participate in Shabbat 250.

But when someone says spend an evening with your family, turn off the noise and reconnect with faith; light candles, share a meal, talk to your children; why should cynicism prevent us from hearing something beautiful?

That is not a political moment. Instead, it invites a sacred experience. 

The ancient Jewish sages put it simply: "Who is wise? One who learns from every person." Wisdom sometimes arrives from unexpected places — and unexpected people. Maturity is the confidence to separate the message from our emotional reaction to the messenger.

A national Sabbath? Bring it on. Let America taste — even for one day — what wise traditions have known for thousands of years: that pausing isn't laziness, it's holiness. That stopping isn't weakness, it's wisdom. That one day a week of putting down the phone and picking up the soul may be the most countercultural, revolutionary act a human being can perform in 2026.

This guest essay reflects the views of Rabbi Anchelle Perl, the director of Chabad of Mineola.

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